There's one kakak senior from my MRSM days who stated in her FB, "Kalau orang yang diri dia sendiri tak betul, memang suka cari kelemahan orang, orang semua salah dia saja yang betul".
Hmmnnn.... I guess it's true tau. People who are not at peace with themselves, who are always hasad dengki with others, or simply bitter about their life etc... will most likely look for the negative things to focus upon. They will always zone in on the negative traits, and sadly it's through this way that they feel better about themselves. Sad, kan?
It's easy to identify these people. These are the ones yang have no good things to say about others. Always complaining about one thing or another. They thrive by belittling others.
If u have these people in your life, stay away from them. Jumpa or cakap bila perlu saja. Because kalau tak, u will be sucked in into their world of negativity! And what kind of life would that be?
Key word here is, Betulkan Diri Sendiri dulu.